Sometimes, most of the time, I feel like I am striving for balance on top of the house of cards, or a pure moment of stasis on a carousel. But for a few moments today, I felt like I achieved it. My friend Sarah and her baby girl left at 3 pm, after the lovely/chaotic/unrelaxing reality of attempting to do anything with a baby, let alone two. We had finally managed to get ourselves out to lunch where they were so sweet to us, I had blue cheese and pear salad with hazelnuts, sh